welcome to fetch for me, human

helping Devoted Dog Owners and their dogs Navigate the Hard Stuff & Understand Each other
Because every dog deserves to be understood

Virtual dog behavior consulting and education for the devoted owner who wants to go deeper than tips and quick fixes. Written from experience, grounded in science, and informed by a life with a difficult dog.

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Adventures & Guides

ENRICHMENT

For the Whole Dog

DOG BEHAVIOR

Understand Your Dog

FOR THE HUMAN

You Matter Too

SENIOR DOGS

Love Them Longer

Resources

Tools & Guides Worth Trusting

virtual behavior consulting
going deeper than behavior

Behind every behavior struggle is a reason. I’ll help you find it.

There’s a reason your dog does what they do. Whether your dog is reactive on leash, anxious at home, fearful of the world, or experiencing challenges you can’t quite explain, the behavior is never random. It’s communication. I’ll help you understand what’s actually happening beneath the surface.

Together, we’ll slow down and actually look at what’s driving the behavior, not just what it looks like on the outside. We’ll look at a complete picture of your dog to build a custom plan that works for you, your dog, and your real life. You’ll leave with a real understanding of what’s happening, why it’s happening, and exactly what to do about it. No generic protocols or quick fixes. Just a real plan for your specific dog.


Virtual Consulting

Work with me from anywhere in the world.

Relationship Centered

Force-free methods that never compromise your dog’s trust.

Whole Dog Approach

Biology, environment, learning history, emotional state – it all matters.

Helpful Resources

free guides

Resources to help you and your dog thrive together.

Shop my Favorites

Recommendations you can trust, endorsed by Buster.

My Substack

The place where I write from the heart.

The Podcast

Listen to the podcast while you walk your dog.

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Free Enrichment Essentials Guide

A free guide with over 30 ideas to enrich your dog’s life and have more fun with them.

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a little about me

Hey there, I’m Alix!

It’s so nice to meet you.

I’m a dog behavior consultant, writer, and the person on the other end of Buster’s leash, the dog who changed everything for me.

I became a behavior consultant and overall dog nerd the way most people do: I needed help and couldn’t find it. A decade of veterinary medicine, explosive detection canine program work, and one very difficult dog later, I spend my time helping exhausted, devoted dog owners who aren’t willing to give up.

This cutie is Buster!

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How I Can Help You and Your Dog

No matter where you are in the world, I can help you understand your dog better so that you can live a better, easier life together.

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Book Your Consultation

Choose the program that feels right and book your first 90-minute behavior consultation. Not sure which one? The Services page breaks it all down.

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Complete Your Intake Form

Before your first session you’ll fill out a detailed intake form so I can come prepared with a full picture of your dog’s history, environment, and current challenges.

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Your Behavior Consultation

Your first 90-minute session is where the real work begins. We slow down, look at the whole picture, and figure out what’s actually driving your dog’s behavior, not just what it looks like on the surface.

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Walk Away With a Real Plan

You leave with a written behavior summary and a custom training plan built around your specific dog. This is a real roadmap for lasting change and a better life together.

Ready to understand your dog on a deeper level and live a better life together?

more than just training

The FETCH Framework

A NEW WAY OF SEEING YOUR DOG

Looking Deeper Into Behavior

Behavior is the part of the picture that we can see, but it’s not the whole picture. I use a whole-dog framework to understand what’s really driving your dog’s behavior, and the answer is almost always deeper than what appears on the surface.

Read the Journal

From the desk of someone who gets it.

Essays on dog behavior, life with Buster, and what it actually means to love a difficult dog. Written from experience and grounded in science so you don’t have to spend countless hours Googling at midnight.

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Discovering the joy of slower travel, meaningful moments, and embracing the journey instead of rushing to the destination.

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How to Actually travel in a car with a reactive dog

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Free Resources

Grab one of these guides and start living a better life with your dog.

Download guides, checklists, and favorite resources designed to help you understand your dog and make life together better.

Enrichment Essentials Guide

Over 30 enrichment ideas

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The Ultimate Guide to Traveling with Dogs

Confidently travel with your dog anywhere

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3 Key Tips to Training a Reactive Dog

Learn what to focus on to set a solid foundation

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